Staying Stuck Although You Are Making More Money
June 28th, 2010 | 
Author: Staying Stuck Although You Are Making More Money
Do you find yourself making more money finally and yet you are still in debt?
Do you find yourself spending it as much as you make it?
You are not the only one many people are doing like you.
Self help classes
You may have gone to many self help classes and read many books on money and yet you are being stuck.
You may understand logically and maybe able to explain it to other and still find yourself in the same stuck place.
Being positive does not work when you are feeling a different way with money.
You may feel that you have done a lot of work on healing yourself only to realize that your reality shows that the change has not show up in your financial outcome.
Quality to money
Money does not have a quality as good bad or abusive; it is you who put the quality to money.
Stopping at a certain point
You may find yourself or know someone who was making lots of money and stop at a certain point to go further in getting more money.
You accumulate more things more toys and stop gaining more.
This is like losing weight you have an amount and thats it.
Your beliefs
People who are rich are selfish; which is not true yet you may have bought into this belief or some other belief similar about money that is holding you back from moving forward.
Listening to what you say about money when you talk to family and friends can give you more insight in where you are blocking in your finance.
Creating anxiety
You may find yourself creating anxiety with the way you are thinking the way you are feeling and the actions you are carrying out.
Going further and taking more risk will go against what you think to be true about whom and what you think.
Afraid of pain
If you are not going forward you are afraid of pain because you are either avoiding pain or going to pleasure and somehow you believe that having more will bring you pain.
Take time to discover your fears that is stopping you from getting more and with the help of talking to others you find that your beliefs comes up much easier because you are not paying attention to what you consider to be the truth.
If you are not getting what you want and are feeling stuck you are getting a pay off in staying there.
Breaking the pattern
You cannot take another step until you understand that you cannot blame the outside world and it is not about good luck it is about you stopping it from happening.
Sometimes in moving forward will change your life even more than you are willing to deal with.
Sometimes it is because you will have more than your parents earn and you may not want to surpass your parents and feel you have done better than them or you maybe afraid that you may have feeling that you are better than them.
Matching
A shift need to happen in matching your thinking beliefs and action and how you will be when or if you become successful needed to be aligned.
Conclusion: Staying stuck in the same place with money although you are making more tells you it is not about money and about how you view your life. Creating a new change will ask time and being consistent.
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